Sering there [is] question, what will be pecarana which Islamy ?
Saya always reply, that I not yet found in Islam reference [of] concerning terminology Pacaran, till I [do] not find sia sia****** [is] nologi pacaran which Islamy
Pacaran [is] term of youngster of Indonesia which konotasinya oppose against Islam
Except, about how to take choice to chosen couple candidate live, in Islam reference [of] there are term khitbah, what in Indonesian interpreted [by] Peminangan
Dalam KHI Section 1 hurup a, Peminagan [is] activity strive toward the happening of [relation/link] perjodohan [of] [among/between] a man with a woman
How with pacaran ?
Hubungan [of] [among/between] man of man and woman braided in rangla of accomplishment of sexual ambition earn dikategorekan as
a. mind [relation/link] or equally be referred [as] [by] a love affair, and b. physical [relation/link]; meeting, looking into- view, having a chat, bersentukan, go with, mojok, berduaan, dishing something out, fornicating, pregnant, marry accident; that’s so-called pacaran.
Existing Itulah reality about pacaran
Kalau so existing reality, [which/such] possible there [is] pacaran which Islamy
Upaya to take choice to be made [by] a couple live, so-called Khitbah , in order to that, a men diperbolehkan recognize [his/its] wife candidate by seeing face and second of [his/its] palm. If/When he interested, he may continue sia sia****** its[his], on the contrary the woman, if/when having the pleasure to he may accept that lamaran.
Islam prohibit two different mankind [of] type which non muhrim, without nuptials tying, for berduaan, as does pacaran. Sebagaimana utter Rasulullah Saw.
Braiding love affair, in boundary braid spiritual [relation/link], for menjajaki of[is possibility of readying or [do] not to be applied for, in the way of which as according to boundary of boundary of Islam norm, that might be earn assumed from shares khitbah.
WAY OF BRAIDING [RELATION/LINK]
Cara braid love which [do] not impinge Islam norm, trusted misalnya;Mengirim courier, perhaps woman of juga.Hubungan of correspondence, sms, Telephonic Berbicara, Chatting.
Bertamu to the girl with attended sia sia****** its[his], of course appearance [of] the girl also have to according to norm, closing aurat.
Kalau really be interested, there [is] insuffiency [is] perceivable,, distribute to [by] [of] ladder khitbah.
Except that be interested [by] caused by insuffiency, hence may not propagate that insuffiency to others, in order to [do] not hurt [his/its] feeling.
Why seen enabled to be only face and palm, Face deputize [his/its] beauty, Palm deputize [his/its] body fertility.
IF SEEN more than THAT ?
If the men see to see more than simply that, of course since the men pay no regard to boundarys which boleh,Juga [of] since the woman derestrict x’self for look see. In this case there [is] analyse soul health. There [is] one who have soul disparity of[is so-called eksibisionosme, that is one who get soul easiness by demonstrateing sia sia****** its[his].
If/When the men see which kinds of, have earned to see which one, he wish again see other, further he wish to suffer which one, if/when earning which one he wish again suffer the other.
The woman, will show offcolour, he’ll draw fire man man to be persuaded to [do/conduct] which may not, if/when corner have by rayuan, one matter ****have come too far unintentionally** [is] dilalkukan, hence he’ll easy fallen to [at] deed which more than that. Sia Sia****** have [is] polite,
لأ يخلون رجل بامرأة الا ومعها ذوامحرم
Man man with woman may not mojog without attendance sia sia****** its[his].
[There] no pacaran which Islamy, since term pacaran always sia sia****** with collision of Islam norm.
In Islam [is] Khitbah, that is process to [go] to nuptials, what for that, men may get acquainted with woman which will be proposed marriage to, with remain to look after aurat and attended [by] muhrim.
Why so be limited [by] and stiff ? So the way of Islam look after woman supremacy. Glorious woman surely agree with this definition.
Kumpilasi Hukum Islam, Section 12 express;
Prohibited [By] Khitbah to woman which [is] [in] khitbah of others,
Also be prohibited [by] me khitbah woman which [is] in iddah of divorce raj ‘ ie
From where we start ?
Start from our x’self, and the family we
Start from habit look after aurat, sia sia****** [is] good habit in assocciation usher oposite gender.
Don’T give opportunity to syaithan to become our prompter [is] abysmal in order to religion norm
Each and everyone surely have [done/conducted] mistake.
What is best among them